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The Late-Bloomer Chronicle
For over 20 years, I have been writing and talking about women celebrating themselves, and now, I want you to join me. I know that if you’re a Late-Bloomer, you are busy becoming what you can be. But if you think your story can inspire other women or you just want to do a little bragging, take a few minutes and share your story with me.
Click here and tell me about yourself.
Later in the year, when I get enough stories, I hope to start featuring one a week on my blog. If the response is good, I’ll publish a book of the best ones, and the featured women will receive a copy autographed by me!
I look forward to making your acquaintance!
Author Jean Candlish Kelchner explores the lives of women both real and fictional in her writing. Each of her books embraces her main theme “Awakening the Sleeping Beauty”. She calls women ‘Sleeping Beauties’ whom she believes are so caught up in being what they are supposed to be that they never explore who they are and what they can be.
If you are on the road to becoming what you can be, Jean wants to hear your story. Of all the submissions she receives, she will select, write about, and publish the most intriguing and meaningful of them on her BLOG. Good luck!!!
Congratulations to me!!! I’m Guest Blogger this week on Shelley Workinger’s Blog Site ‘But What Are they Eating’.
The Blog features food in books. Isn’t that a sweet idea and doesn’t it give you fodder for thought? Seriously, my blog post for her site is about food in my novel, Backstage at the White House.
What do you think? Did the First Lady and her friends enjoy strawberries and champagne or beer and pretzels? You will have to read it to find out–or buy the book!
http://bookfare.blogspot.com/
Queen Elizabeth and Me
While everyone was watching the new Royal Couple several weeks ago, I was watching the Queen. I have known her as long as I can remember–and I remember the Second World War. Did you know she trained as a driver and mechanic and drove a military truck? I was in the Girl Scouts and knitted a scarf for the soldiers. It was khaki wool with lots of holes–I never could knit.
Americans have always had a love affair with British Royalty, not that we ever wanted them, but we are fascinated by them–my grandmother was one of the worst. We love their musty old castles and the pageantry, and it was all rolled out for the Wedding of the Year as only the Brits can do it. I wasn’t even going to watch but I got pulled right in.
While everyone looked for the Bride, I looked for the bride’s Grandmother-in-law. She was hard not to see in her bright yellow. No one else wore yellow, actually, no other woman even wore a bright color. How do they do that? And why did they pick that cheery color? Was it to make sure the Bride did not upstage the Queen. Well, they pulled it off, the Brits did. They put on quite a show with the Bride glowing and The Queen out-standing. Did you know that the Queen and her husband share a great, great grandmother, Queen Victoria.
I have grown up to write about Sleeping Beauties–women who are busy being what they are supposed to be–and I have never seen a more perfect example, but I certainly can’t call her a Sleeping Beauty waiting to be awakened. No, she defies the idea. She’s a Queen and gotten quite good at it. Toward the end of the ceremony, when they played “God Save the Queen”, she didn’t fidget, as I might have. No, she sat quietly, her head down, allowing them to pay tribute to her as was her due. When she came out on the balcony, she waved, in a somewhat bored fashion; after all, she’s done a lot of that. After, whatever she considered an adequate time for the family to be seen by their subjects, she went in which signaled the end of that.
I must admit that I was fascinated with her. What was she thinking? Is she happy? Does she worry about her family, their health and happiness or just that they don’t botch things up. They’ve done a lot of that. How does she feel when they aren’t being what they are supposed to be? Does she love her subjects and her country, or just need them because she’s a Queen? I guess we’ll never know.
Did you know that one of her ‘Ladies in Waiting’ carries a sheep skin cover for the toilet seat when they travel?
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Claire is going to be in the Late-Bloomer Chronicle. She believes, “It’s Never too Late!!!”
Claire always loved to perform! When she was little, she would sing out the window to the women hanging clothes out of theirs and they would give her a clothesline ovation. She knew the words to all the big show tunes, but what she loved most was to dance! Living close to New York City and Broadway only fed her fantasy, but, to borrow a cliché, the road to Broadway is strewn with broken dreams, and Claire’s parents had more secure dreams in mind for her. Claire, a dutiful daughter to loving parents, did what she was supposed to do, and she was successful at it. When she retired, at 57, she was a Director of Grants Development for Special Education in the New York City School System, overseeing the needs of 20,000 disabled children. But she never gave up her dream–it was just on hold.
For the past five years, she has been dancing with the NETSational Senior Dance Team–hand-picked to perform a Hip Hop routine at the Nets Basketball games. She has traveled with her dance team–all over the country– to promote a new film, Gotta Dance, which was featured at this year’s Tribeca Film Festival. Watch for BLOND-e with her Hip Hop Team and watch for her story on my Blog and later in The Late-Bloomer Chronicle.
HOW DO YOU GET TO CARNEGIE HALL? PRACTICE!
I know, it’s an old, tired joke, but I like it! Besides, there’s another way to get to Carnegie Hall–buy a ticket. (Did you know that tickets cost $1 and $2 for the opening night on May 8, 1891?} And, it was an auspicious beginning with Peter Tchaikovsky on the program conducting his “Festival Coronation March“. ( Did you know that Tchaikovsky was so superstitious that he would hold his head on when he conducted afraid it might topple off. Honest!!!)
Last week I used my fourth and final ticket in an International Orchestra Series I had purchased. This one was the St. Petersburg Philharmonic. They featured a marvelous pianist named Nikolai Lugansky in the Rachmaninoff Concerto No. 2 in C Minor. It was an encore performance. (Did you know that in 1909 this same concerto was performed on that very stage by Rachmaninoff, himself, and the Boston Symphony?)
A sense of wonder struck me as the musicians entered. Here I was, a girl from Augusta, Arkansas, sitting in this famed Music Hall, watching a performance by accomplished musicians from t he beautiful cit y of St. Petersburg. Who would have ever thought it!!
I remember a few years back when I had been struck with the same wonder. My cousin, Martha, and I had gone to the Metropolitan Museum for a Van Gogh show and had walked down to the Plaza Hotel for lunch–on the way we had casually passed Al Pacino walking the other way. (I had a hard time acting nonchalant.) At lunch, I said, looking under the table and seeing a plug, “Used to, when you had a call, they’d bring the phone right over to the table and plug it in, Now, I believe they use cordless. . . . . . . . Did you ever think we’d be sitting at a table in the Plaza having lunch.”
“No, and I don’t have the slightest idea what to do with this,” she replied, holding up a fish knife.
The Plaza has changed a lot and so has Al Pacino, but the Met and Carnegie Hall remain constant. St. Petersburg is the ‘Venice of the North’ and the St. Petersburg Philharmonic is a proud Russian institution.
But you don’t see many fish knives around anymore.
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French Women Writers I Know
I have a VERY Francophile Friend, and once in awhile. when I’m in a snit, I take her on. I’ll admit that I took a sadistic pleasure several years ago when there was so much anti-French feeling that we were eating Liberty Fries. At the same time, however, when a woman at the deli counter loudly announced, “I don’t buy anything French!” I, almost as loudly, ordered a pound of French Ham.
But, getting to the point, last week, I told my friend about a Blog I had just read on Colette and one of her books and she, right away, ordered the book and even a CD of it in French. At the time. I was in one of my snits so I announced, “I don’t like French women writers!” She responded, “You haven’t read any!” She had me!
George Sand
So, I googled French Women Writers. Can you believe how many there are? I was amazed too! However, before I got there, I realized that I knew three, two intimately. The first, George Sand, I had met because of the composer Frederic Chopin–she was his lover and she liked to walk around in fancy men’s clothes. I’ve never read her so I don’t think she counts.
The second, Christine de Pisan, I have already written about in my work, Daughters of Eve, a Herstory Book, but Christine was actually born in Italy to Italian parents, who moved to France when her father was appointed astrologer to King Charles the Wise. I look at her as a moot point.
- Simone de Beauvoir
The third, Simone de Beauvoir, was pure French, born in Paris and educated in French schools, including the Sorbonne. I met her in a graduate course in Existentialism, where I was required to write a paper on her book/essay “The Ethics of Ambiguity“. In it, she develops an Ethics for Existential thought which she shared with her lifetime lover and intellectual companion, Jean Paul Sartre. (Did you know that Sartre was not quite five feet tall? Obviously, height has nothing to do with intellect.)
She is probably best known for her feminist writing; especially The Second Sex which is a foundation for modern feminism. In its introduction she writes, “woman has always been man’s dependent, if not his slave; the two sexes have never shared the world in equality.” That was a strong statement for 1949.
It struck me while writing this, that of the two French Women Writers I know–the pseudo-Christine and the bona-fide Simone–both were feminists. Christine de Pisan/Pizan/Pissano) is considered the first feminist writer for her contribution to women of her day in The City of Ladies , and Simone de Beauvoir is considered the pre-cursor to major feminist writers of the last half of the 20th century. I think I’ll put them both in The Late-Bloomer Chronicle, that is, if I can find enough late-bloomers to join them.
Leave me a comment–I’d love to hear from you!Geraldine Ferraro and Me
I was married with children when Geraldine Ferraro was a VP candidate. She was a new breed, a New York Yankee with Italian immigrant parents--a WOMAN at a time when LADY was still the preferred. The attacks against her and her family during the campaign would not have been possible if she had not been a woman . “If she had been home where she belonged,”. . . well, that was heard a lot back then. Whether any of those attacks were true or not, her career never recovered. I watched the attacks against her with fascination. She didn’t have a chance. In fact, the barrage was so intense that it seemed like there was an organized plot to get her, part of a bigger scheme, even a calculated plan to keep all women out of power, especially out of politics. In my imagination, I could see some very powerful men sitting around a table in a secret place planning the future of women, watching carefully to keep the world the way they believed it should be, and Geraldine was out-of-line. I was inspired to write my novel Backstage at the White House which is about a plot to keep women out of power and about a group of women who set out to set things right. I tried to tell Geraldine Ferraro about my book but she wasn’t interested. I don’t know if she was bitter at the way she was treated–she certainly had every reason to be for she was a victim and no one came to help her out. We have a lot of those in our history, and we don’t have a good track record for helping each other. Geraldine Ferraro will be remembered for going where no WOMAN had dared to tread–and me, well, if she had read my book, she would have known that I, for one, cared.
Christine de Pisan, an Early Renaissance Poet.
Some scholars call her the first feminist writer for good reason. In her work, The City of Ladies 
, she writes about historic women and gives sage and quaint advice for women of her day who had to live in the world as it was; she addresses not only the noble and powerful but the peasant and prostitute, the widow, the spinster, the nun, the married, the single, even the old and the young. She took on this task because she said she could have used such advice when she was widowed.
Christine was married when she was 15 and widowed when she was 25. She was left with five mouths to feed and much debt at a time when a woman of her class had two choices–to remarry or become a nun–obviously, Christine could not become a nun and shirk her responsibilities and she said that she’d had a happy marriage and did not care to enter the state again. Fortunately for her, it was also a time in France when Charles V the Wise was building a magnificent library and she had a talent copying manuscripts. She would eventually be courted by the great courts of Europe for, not only her agile mind and eloquent verse, but, also a woman earning her livelihood by writing was an oddity, indeed. Christine had the strength and determination to do what she had to do and to be what she could be. Read more about her in my book, Daughters of Eve, a Herstory Book.
Alicia is going to be part of The Late-Bloomer Chronicle! A Story of Resilience and Survival!
Alicia
dreamed of a big family, a picket fence with all the trimmings, a good job, and even a little adventure. She wanted it all. Even after she found herself pregnant, and had t o drop out of college, she still looked on it as only a detour, a hitch in the road; but instead, her life spiraled out of control. Her baby boy was born with complications that would lead to his death. For two years, they stuck it out together, and when it was over, she didn’t have many pieces to pick up. She had been part of his little world so long, that it had become her world. The resilience that had helped her survive now helped her start down the road to becoming what she can be. She’s now a Social Worker and a Consultant, and she says that “life as a Late-Bloomer has been great. Who would have thought that I could finish college after losing my son. I am now finishing graduate school. I travel to different countries and have fun. I am redefining who I am, and I hope to inspire others as well. Watch for her story on my Blog and later in The Late-Bloomer Chronicle.
